One thing to keep in mind is that hops tend to accentuate spices. So keep that in mind when you order your wings. If you can't get enough spice, then go as hot as you can get but if you have a more delicate palate then you may want to order a milder version.
Either way IPA's are great for dishes that have assertive flavors because they can hold their own. In other words, you won't ever think "Was that my beer or water I just drank?" Their assertive hop profile and elevated alcohol content do a great job of cleansing the palate and getting you ready for the next bite.